Anal beads are a sex toy consisting of multiple spheres or balls attached together in series which are continuously inserted through the anus into the rectum and then removed with varying speeds depending on the effect desired (most typically at orgasm to enhance climax). Those who use anal beads enjoy the pleasurable feeling they receive as the ball passes through the narrow sphincter of the anus.
Anal beads are available in a wide variety of sizes, with individual beads measuring from just 8mm diameter right up to 75mm diameter and beyond. It is advisable for beginners to start with a smaller size. Most users enjoy beads with a diameter around 25mm or so, but some will become more adventurous with experience, and try larger sizes for increased pleasure. Anal beads are commonly made of silicone, plastic, rubber, latex, glass or metal and end with a ring or similar handle designed for pulling. The purpose in mind of this ring is to prevent the sex toy from becoming fully lodged in the rectum, as well as to facilitate its removal. The beads may either be joined flexibly, in which case they must be inserted individually, or by a semi rigid thin shaft, in which case they may be pushed into the anus in one go, by holding onto the end. This design has advantages for masturbation.
The many nerve endings of the sphincter allow for sensations of arousal both during insertion and removal, and larger beads may create feelings of pressure while inside the rectum.
Some anal beads are enhanced with vibration technology for advanced levels of pleasure.
Usage
Anal beads are used by both sexes and all sexual orientations, and while they can be considered "kinky," they are not considered a fetish. They are, however, incorporated in many fetishes that involve anal sex, ass worship, spanking, enemas or anything involving the buttocks, anus, or anal area.
The beads may also be used alone, as both men and women can find them very stimulating.
As with all anal sexual activity, the anal beads and the rectum should be well-lubricated with a sexual lubricant intended for such purposes. It is important to do this as the rectum is easily ripped, torn or injured. Anal sex toys should be well washed with warm soapy water and left to dry naturally after use. Alternatively they may be placed inside a condom, which is recommended if they are shared with a partner.
Care must also be taken to count the beads after using them to ensure that all are removed from the anus. There have been instances of the string being broken by intense rectal movements. If a bead gets stuck within the rectum and can not be pushed out naturally, surgical intervention may be necessary.
A Dildo is a sex toy which is used in place of an actual penis for sexual reasons. Both men and women can use dildos, most often for putting into the vagina or anus, but also sometimes instead of oral sex, etc. Since dildos are very simple toys, they can be and are used in many different ways. They are capable of producing arousal to the point of an orgasm, and for this reason, dildos are commonly used for masturbation. Dildos are also used during sex with more than one person, though.
Dildos come in many different shapes, sizes, and materials (most often glass, plastic, rubber, metal, or wood) for different looks and feels, different uses, and to provide the best stimulation for different people. Some dildos vibrate and pivot for extra pleasure: they are called vibrators.Masturbation Toys for Men
While paging through many of the items in a typical sex store and adult novelty store site, it may appear that there aren’t a great number of sex toys made just for males. With this article, we’ll go over several types of adult toys made just for men that greatly increase the fun and variety of solo pleasure.
Penis Pumps
A penis pump is a simple device that uses a suctioning vacuum pressure to rush and trap blood in the chambers of the penis. The suction, usually controllable by a gauge with a hand pump, is often an extremely enjoyable feeling for many men. With so much blood circulating and filling the penis, the erection produced for the user is very firm, which can result in an increasingly strong orgasm. Whether using this sex toy for your own pleasure or with a partner, a penis pump can be a delightful deviation from your normal arousal methods and fantasies.
Masturbation Sleeves
Often made from soft, pliable substances such as jelly rubber, textured latex, or silicone, both fake pussies and masturbation sleeves are undoubtedly the most simple men’s toy. Sleeves are soft and easy to use; simply insert the penis into the open end and rub back and forth, in and out.
Masturbation sleeves come in many different shapes – ranging from realistic - appearing fake vaginas to flashlights or other cylindrical items. Some have an internal bullet vibrator to enhance feeling; some have textured surfaces to enhance friction; others are internally lined to simulate intercourse with a woman. Many porn stars offer their own line of fake vaginas that are cast from molds of their own body parts, giving an interesting angle to watching a film and acting out your fantasies in the privacy of your own home!
Cock Rings
Cock rings work by trapping blood flow within the genitals, creating a more firm erection and increased sensitivity. For some men, this pressure can also result in a more powerful orgasm as well, whether playing solo or having intercourse with their partner.
There are several types of cock rings to choose from, ranging from the basic single-strap adjustable type to fixed, non-adjustable metal or stretch rubber rings, to silicone/jelly style vibrating rings.
Vibrators and Attachments
Though many might believe vibrator sex toys are made for women, many men also enjoy holding a vibrator against their testicles or shaft while masturbating. The strong hum produced by an adult toy can give a different, exciting feeling while trying different modes, speeds, and types of vibrations.
Some vibrators now come with attachments that make prostate play easier and more exciting. Also, with a number of the more popular vibrator vibes, different ‘heads’ may be fitted on the vibrator itself for different sensations. This idea is also a great one to share between partners and experiment with during mutual masturbation and intercourse.
All articles within Sex toys 411 have been written by me, Ann Andriani. I've been actively involved with sex toys for 18 years now. There are so many people out there that have a desire and/or curiosity to use sex toys, but are ashamed, embarrassed or simply prohibit themselves from just doing the research.
I have written these articles to challenge the stereotypes and myths and show adults that using sex toys is not only okay to do, but will enrich their lives as a whole.
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While customers, and the occasional activist, are trying hard to drag sex shops into the 21st century, the reality is that many, if not most, sex shops still rely on our insecurity, fear, and ignorance, in order to survive while offering us bad customer service, and shoddy products at inflated prices.
The good news is that there are now dozens of excellent sex shops both on and off line, and no one has to suffer foolish sex shops gladly anymore. The trick is knowing which sex shops you can trust. Here are some tips on how to tell if the sex shop you’re buying from is worth your time and money.
Difficulty: Easy
Time Required: It's worth investing a little time in finding a good sex shop.
Here's How:
Start with word of mouth.
Word of mouth recommendations are the best was to find a great sex shop. If someone you know has actually shopped there they can offer first hand experience. By the same token, if you’ve found a great sex shop spread the word. If we all treat sex shops like any other business, they’ll have to start acting like other businesses, and clean up their acts if they want to keep us as customers.
Shop in person when you can.
Any bricks and mortar sex shop worth their salt will have samples of all their products out and working, so you can see, feel, and touch your potential purchases. Shopping in person is the best way to reduce the risk of a toy being the wrong shape, the wrong strength, the wrong smell, or the wrong shade of purple. We don’t all have first rate sex shops in our city or town, but if you’re traveling and you know you’ll be in a city where there is one, take advantage. If you can’t shop in person, be extra vigilant about assessing the shop before you purchase on line.
Test their customer service.
Whether you’re shopping in store or on line, ask a few questions before making a purchase, to test out the customer service of the sex shop. On line the best way to do this is by emailing a few questions. Based on both the speed with which they respond and what you think of their answers you can get a sense of their service. If you’re shopping in person you can just ask a few questions, or if you aren’t comfortable with that, call the store and ask them over the phone before you go in. Try asking two questions, one about products, and one about policies.
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Product questions.
Ask questions to test their knowledge about what they carry and how much they know about sex toys in general. For example, ask them if they have the Rabbit Pearl in stock or what the difference is between dildo X and dildo Y that they carry. Ask them to make a recommendation (e.g. I’m looking for a movie that’s explicit but not too raunchy? Or what’s a good first time vibrator?) This can also give you a sense of whether they’re just trying to push the most expensive toy on you. A good sex shop will make more than one suggestion, and include a range of products at different pricing.
Policy questions.
The two most important questions that can distinguish good sex shops from bad ones are about privacy policies and return policies. If you’re shopping on line, what happens if a toy arrives already broken? Who pays for the return shipping? How long of a warranty do they offer with vibrating toys? Do they offer a satisfaction guarantee, or can you only return products if they are defective? In terms of privacy, what sort of information do they keep for customers, and do they ever share that information with other companies or make their mailing list available for trade or sale?
Price compare.
If you’re surfing it’s easy to compare prices. If you’re comparing stores in your neighborhood you can also just call and ask about prices. There is an enormous difference in sex shop pricing, and you want to avoid stores that practice “premium pricing”. Sometimes you’ll pay more for better customer service, and this can be well worth the few extra dollars, but you want to make sure that paying more means getting more, not just getting duped.
Check out their links and resource offerings.
Good sex shops create ties with community organizations, and good on line sex shops offer links to like-minded sites. If you’re shopping on line, check out the link section of the website. Who a company links to can tell you a lot about the company. If you’re shopping in person, does the store have a resource area where they offer free literature from local sexual health or sex positive organizations? The best sex shops always do.
Shop your conscience and your budget.
There are worker co-op sex shops, feminist sex shops, sex shops just for Christians, and sex shops that are open to everyone. Some of the most successful mainstream sex shops started out radical, with a very narrow focus, but found that as their customer base expanded, they needed to broaden their ideas of who deserves a good sex shop experience. Happily, the most progressive sex shops, the ones that offer the best customer service, are often the ones with the best pricing. But the bottom line is that if you look around enough, you can probably find one that is a fit with you.
Tips:
Avoid sex shops that don’t have a posted privacy policy and return policy either on their website or visible in the store.
Don’t purchase from on line sex shops that don’t respond promptly to email questions. Automatic responses don’t count. If you don’t get a real human response within 24 hours of emailing a question, move on.
Don’t purchase from on line sex shops that don’t offer a toll free number. This may be a prejudice on my part, but an operation that doesn’t offer a toll free number for customers isn’t one that invests in good customer service.
Be cautious of sex shops that make outrageous claims (positive or negative) about their products or sex toys in general. If a sex shop is pressuring you into buying something, or claiming that they only sell good products but all other companies sell bad products, be wary. A good sex shop will offer information and support you to make your own decision, not tell you what to decide.
Avoid sex shops that sell high priced products but can’t explain to you why they are more expensive. If they’re response is that the more expensive toy gives you more pleasure, they are lying. More expensive products should last longer, be made of better quality material, or have some other concrete benefit. Don’t assume that because a toy is over $100 it is worth it.
